SAFE SPACE ALLIES — TERMS OF SERVICE

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Last updated: June 2026


Please read these Terms of Service carefully before using Safe Space Allies. By accessing or using this site you agree to be bound by these terms. If you do not agree, do not use this site.


1. About Safe Space Allies

Safe Space Allies (“SSA,” “we,” “us”) is a community resource supporting people navigating kink, BDSM, and alternative relationship structures. SSA is a program of Trisoni.org.

This site contains adult content intended for people 18 years of age or older. By using this site you confirm that you are at least 18 years old, or the age of majority in your jurisdiction if that age is higher than 18.


2. Age Requirement

This site is strictly for adults 18 years of age or older.

By accessing Safe Space Allies you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old. If you are not, you must leave this site immediately. We reserve the right to terminate accounts and deny access to anyone we have reason to believe is under 18.


3. Adult Content

Safe Space Allies contains educational and community content related to kink, BDSM, and alternative relationship structures. This content is intended for adults who are voluntarily seeking this information.

By using this site you acknowledge that:

  • You are accessing this content voluntarily and of your own free will
  • You understand the nature of the content on this site
  • You are not accessing this site from a jurisdiction where such content is prohibited
  • You will not allow minors to access your account or the content on this site

4. Member Accounts

To access certain features of Safe Space Allies — including saved assessment results, blog comments, and member resources — you must create an account.

When creating an account you agree to:

  • Provide accurate information at registration
  • Maintain the security of your password and account
  • Not share your account with others
  • Notify us immediately of any unauthorized account use
  • Be responsible for all activity that occurs under your account

We recommend using a username that does not identify you personally if discretion is important to you.

We reserve the right to terminate accounts that violate these Terms of Service at any time and without notice.


5. SSA Signals Assessment

The SSA Signals assessment is a self-knowledge tool. It is not therapy, medical advice, psychological diagnosis, or a substitute for professional support.

By using the SSA Signals assessment you acknowledge that:

  • Results are for personal reflection and self-exploration only
  • Results do not constitute a clinical assessment of any kind
  • Safe Space Allies makes no representations about the accuracy or completeness of your results
  • You are solely responsible for how you use and interpret your results

Assessment results stored locally in your browser via localStorage remain on your device. Safe Space Allies does not collect, transmit, or store your assessment answers unless you have a member account and have chosen to save your results.


6. Community Conduct

Safe Space Allies is a community resource. Members who participate in comments, forums, or other community features agree to:

Do:

  • Engage with honesty, respect, and good faith
  • Respect the privacy and discretion of other community members
  • Follow SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual) and RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink) principles in community discussions
  • Report content that violates these terms

Do not:

  • Out, expose, or share identifying information about other members without their explicit consent
  • Harass, threaten, or intimidate other members
  • Post content that sexualizes minors in any way
  • Post non-consensual intimate imagery or content
  • Impersonate other members or community figures
  • Post spam, unsolicited solicitations, or commercial content without permission
  • Share content that facilitates real-world harm

Violation of community conduct standards may result in immediate account termination without notice or refund.


7. Content Ownership

Your content: You retain ownership of any content you submit to Safe Space Allies — comments, profile information, or other contributions. By submitting content you grant Safe Space Allies a non-exclusive, royalty-free license to display that content on the site.

Our content: All content created by Safe Space Allies — blog posts, assessment content, glossary entries, educational resources, and site design — is the property of Safe Space Allies and Trisoni.org. You may not reproduce, distribute, or republish our content without written permission.

Community content: Content posted by members represents their own views and not the views of Safe Space Allies. We are not responsible for member-generated content but reserve the right to remove content that violates these terms.


8. Privacy

Your use of Safe Space Allies is also governed by our Privacy Policy, which is incorporated into these Terms of Service by reference. Please review our Privacy Policy at safespaceallies.trisoni.org/privacy-policy/.

Our core commitment: we do not sell your data. Ever.


9. Donations and Purchases

Safe Space Allies accepts voluntary donations to support the community resource. Donations are processed through Stripe and are subject to Stripe’s terms of service.

Any merchandise or digital products offered through Safe Space Allies are subject to additional terms presented at the time of purchase.

All sales are final unless otherwise stated at the time of purchase.


10. Disclaimer of Warranties

Safe Space Allies is provided on an “as is” and “as available” basis. We make no representations or warranties of any kind, express or implied, regarding the accuracy, completeness, reliability, or suitability of any content on this site.

The educational content on this site, including the SSA Signals assessment, blog posts, glossaries, and community resources, is provided for informational purposes only. It does not constitute professional advice of any kind — medical, psychological, legal, or otherwise.

Safe Space Allies is not responsible for decisions you make based on content found on this site.


11. Limitation of Liability

To the fullest extent permitted by law, Safe Space Allies and Trisoni.org shall not be liable for any indirect, incidental, special, consequential, or punitive damages arising out of or in connection with your use of this site, including but not limited to:

  • Reliance on any content, assessment results, or community contributions
  • Unauthorized access to or alteration of your data
  • Interruption or cessation of service
  • Any other matter relating to this site

12. Third Party Links and Content

Safe Space Allies may contain links to third party websites, including FetLife, community resources, and educational sources. These links are provided for convenience only. We do not endorse, control, or take responsibility for the content or privacy practices of any third party site.


13. Changes to These Terms

We reserve the right to update these Terms of Service at any time. Changes will be posted on this page with an updated date. Your continued use of the site after changes are posted constitutes your acceptance of the revised terms.

We will make reasonable efforts to notify registered members of significant changes.


14. Governing Law

These Terms of Service are governed by the laws of the State of Georgia, United States, without regard to conflict of law principles.


15. Contact

For questions about these Terms of Service contact us at:

Safe Space Allies safespaceallies.trisoni.org [contact email to be added]


These Terms of Service should be reviewed by a qualified attorney before publication. Safe Space Allies does not provide legal advice.

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