safespaceallies.trisoni.org
Last updated: June 2026
Safe Space Allies is a community resource supporting people navigating kink, BDSM, and alternative relationship structures. We take privacy seriously — not as a legal formality but as a core commitment to the community we serve. Many of our visitors value discretion as a matter of personal safety and professional reputation. We do not take that lightly.
About This Site
Safe Space Allies is an adult content site. By accessing this site you have confirmed that you are 18 years of age or older. This site contains educational content, community resources, and self-knowledge tools related to kink, BDSM, and alternative relationship structures.
Safe Space Allies is a program of Trisoni.org.
Our Core Commitment
We do not sell your data. Ever.
We do not sell, trade, rent, or share your personal information with third parties for marketing or advertising purposes. We do not run ads. We do not work with data brokers. Your information exists to support your experience on this site and for no other purpose.
SSA Signals Assessment
The SSA Signals assessment stores your results locally in your browser using localStorage. This means:
- Your assessment answers and scores live on your device, not on our servers
- We cannot see your assessment results
- We do not collect, transmit, or store your signal data
- If you clear your browser data or switch devices, your results will be lost unless you have a member account
Member accounts: If you create a member account, your assessment results may be saved to your account profile so you can access them across devices. This data is stored securely and is not shared with third parties.
Age Verification
This site uses an age verification gate. When you confirm your age:
- We do not collect or store your date of birth or age confirmation
- The verification is handled via a browser session — it confirms you have passed the gate but does not record personal data
- We do not transmit age verification data to third parties
Member Accounts
If you create a member account on Safe Space Allies:
- We collect your username, email address, and any profile information you choose to provide
- Your password is encrypted and cannot be accessed by site administrators
- You may update or delete your profile information at any time
- You may request complete deletion of your account and associated data by contacting us
We recommend using a username that does not identify you personally if discretion is important to you.
Community Privacy
Safe Space Allies serves a community where privacy and discretion are not preferences — they are often necessities. We are committed to:
- Never publishing or sharing member information without explicit consent
- Never connecting your site activity to your real-world identity
- Supporting your right to participate in this community privately and safely
If you have concerns about your privacy on this site, contact us directly.
Blog Comments
Comments on Safe Space Allies blogs are restricted to registered members. If you leave a comment:
- Your username and comment are visible to other members
- Your email address is not publicly displayed
- We collect your IP address for spam detection purposes only
- Comment data is retained to maintain community conversation history
We moderate comments to maintain community standards. Comments that out, harass, or expose other members will be removed.
Contact
For any privacy-related questions or requests — including data export or deletion requests — contact us at:
Safe Space Allies safespaceallies.trisoni.org [contact email to be added]
The following sections are standard WordPress privacy disclosures that apply to this site:
Who we are
Suggested text: Our website address is: https://safespaceallies.org.
Comments
When visitors leave comments on the site we collect the data shown in the comments form, and also the visitor’s IP address and browser user agent string to help spam detection.
An anonymized string created from your email address (also called a hash) may be provided to the Gravatar service to see if you are using it. The Gravatar service privacy policy is available here: https://automattic.com/privacy/. After approval of your comment, your profile picture is visible to the public in the context of your comment.
Media
If you upload images to the website, you should avoid uploading images with embedded location data (EXIF GPS) included. Visitors to the website can download and extract any location data from images on the website.
Cookies
If you leave a comment on our site you may opt-in to saving your name, email address and website in cookies. These are for your convenience so that you do not have to fill in your details again when you leave another comment. These cookies will last for one year.
If you visit our login page, we will set a temporary cookie to determine if your browser accepts cookies. This cookie contains no personal data and is discarded when you close your browser.
When you log in, we will also set up several cookies to save your login information and your screen display choices. Login cookies last for two days, and screen options cookies last for a year. If you select “Remember Me”, your login will persist for two weeks. If you log out of your account, the login cookies will be removed.
If you edit or publish an article, an additional cookie will be saved in your browser. This cookie includes no personal data and simply indicates the post ID of the article you just edited. It expires after 1 day.
Embedded content from other websites
Articles on this site may include embedded content (e.g. videos, images, articles, etc.). Embedded content from other websites behaves in the exact same way as if the visitor has visited the other website.
These websites may collect data about you, use cookies, embed additional third-party tracking, and monitor your interaction with that embedded content, including tracking your interaction with the embedded content if you have an account and are logged in to that website.
Who we share your data with
If you request a password reset, your IP address will be included in the reset email.
How long we retain your data
If you leave a comment, the comment and its metadata are retained indefinitely. This is so we can recognize and approve any follow-up comments automatically instead of holding them in a moderation queue.
For users that register on our website (if any), we also store the personal information they provide in their user profile. All users can see, edit, or delete their personal information at any time (except they cannot change their username). Website administrators can also see and edit that information.
What rights you have over your data
If you have an account on this site, or have left comments, you can request to receive an exported file of the personal data we hold about you, including any data you have provided to us. You can also request that we erase any personal data we hold about you. This does not include any data we are obliged to keep for administrative, legal, or security purposes.
Where your data is sent
Visitor comments may be checked through an automated spam detection service.